Friday, October 24, 2014

Basic White Tees That Brings Happiness


“There are three things that will never go out of style; a pair of blue jeans, a white t-shirt and a Chanel jacket” Fashion Mogul Karl Lagerfeld. How true is this statement especially for the basic white t-shirt aka the basic white tee? It’s the one item that pairs well with literally any garment or accessory easily.  Ever wondered who started wearing the basic white t-shirt and made it so popular? In the 1960s an actor by the name Brandon wore a basic white t-shirt in a playwright that ended up winning a Pulitzer Prize. The fact that he was also a hunky male made the basic white tee look so cool to wear.
Quality and Cut
The first step in finding happiness with a basic white tee is having a seamless bra to go with it and finding a t-shirt that is of good quality and cut to suit your body type. When it comes to quality, the fabric used has a big hand in it. The fabrics normally used include cotton, polyester or eco-friendly ones such as hemp, bamboo and organic cotton. The cuts on the other hand include the loose hanging tees or the form fitting tees which also vary in the cut on the neck. Some have a V neck, scooped neck, crew neck or raglan. The V neck tees shaped as the letter V can flatter any body shape giving a sexier look. The scooped neck tee on the other hand, has a more rounded neckline and when paired with a blazer is perfectly suitable when going for a formal look. The crew neck has a more modest rounded neckline and can also look stylish particularly if it is fitted and accentuated with a scarf.  The Raglan t-shirt that was adopted from baseball players’ uniform, has a rounded neck and sleeves that attach to the neck diagonally. The sleeves are normally ¾ in length and this type of cut is more suited for a casual look.
What makes us Happy
Lasting happiness however, comes when our tee shirts serve a bigger purpose than covering our nakedness or boosting our confidence. According to Economist and Ted Speaker Paul Zak, while doing research on what makes people happy, he found that a molecule called oxytocin associated with the feelings of love and pain, was released into the blood when someone was happy. He noticed an increase of oxytocin among a group of people who were looking at pictures of their loved ones on social media and in a man who was watching a video about a father who refused to leave the side of his son when he was dying of cancer. His conclusion was that people are happier when they feel connected with other people and are able to empathize with others’ situation.
Tees that bring the Happy in You

When it comes to basic white t-shirts, there are those  sold by companies that allow us to feel connected to other people. Normally they ascribe to a certain cause or movement where wearing a particular tee expresses an individual’s support for or belief in the movement. There are also t-shirts that allow people to give to various charities like education for girls who would otherwise become victims of early marriage, feed starving people or those that help clothe the homeless. These are the kind of t-shirts that give a whole new meaning to feeling good about what you wear. Different researchers have observed that the happiest people are givers. It’s interesting that people who give end up receiving happiness themselves. Being able to support Janet’s education, a 14 yr old girl in Kenya whose parents can barely provide more than one meal a day brings things into perspective. What you wear can have a positive impact in someone’s life. You realize that you actually don’t have it as bad as you think and there are people in the world who are having challenges that you couldn’t possibly imagine. To be able to buy a basic white t-shirt and see the difference it made to someone’s life, can bring true fulfillment and happiness to the wearer. 

Friday, September 26, 2014

Meeting the Girls


Today I had a somewhat emotional day when meeting the girls. Some of their stories went deep into the core of my heart. I had asked the school Principal of the school to identify two girls in high school who needed a bit of help as far as paying their school fees. He instead got me 4 and 2 are in primary school. I couldn't say no and so I interviewed them all.

A little profile of the girls is below. However, I have to say that my eyes teared up when I heard Faith's story because it somewhat reminded me of how I felt being in high school. I felt like the poor kid around all the other girls. The fact that Faith was made fun of by her friends because she was always on the list of those to be sent home broke my heart and that's what motivates me to work harder.

Faith



           12 years old, in Class 8 at Jagiet Academy in Kawangware
·   Lives in an informal settlement in Nairobi called Kawangware
·   Has one older brother
·   She likes to skip rope, play hide and seek
·   Her dream is to become a Doctor
·   The most challenging thing about school is being sent home for lack of school fees. She gets embarrassed being called out in front of the class as one of those to be sent home.
·   She's one of the smartest students in her class. 


  
Janet








·   11 years old, in class 7 at Jagiet Academy Kawangware
·   Lives in the informal settlement in Nairobi called Kawangware
·   Has 3 siblings
·   Her favorite subjects are Math and English
·   She wants to be a model when she grows up
·   Lives with her mother who earns less than $3 a day






Mitchell








·   16 years of age, 10th Grade
·   Has 4 siblings
·   Her favorite subjects include Biology and English
·   She loves to play football
·   Her role model is Michelle Obama
·   The most challenging thing about school is lack of school fees and sanitary towels





Maureen






·   17 years old, in 11th grade
·   Lives in the informal settlement of Kawangware
·   Has 6 siblings
·   She loves English and Biology
·   Her dream is to become a pilot

·   She enjoys cooking and swimming

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Fashion that makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside


Fashion makes us feel good, feel confident, it gives us a sense of belonging, we're able to express ourselves with our style in a world where we're bombarded by different points of view every day. We all have an insatiable need to be heard, to make our point known even through our style alone.

What if we haven't found fashion that encompasses completely who we truly are? Fashion that says I want to look good and touch someone's life. Fashion that allows me to connect to someone I have never met in a place I've never even dreamt of. Fashion that keeps me updated on the difference I'm making. Fashion that goes beyond the artistic expression and beyond covering the nakedness underneath. Fashion that gives you meaning, connection, purpose. That feeling you get when you do something for someone who could never pay you back and it made a whole lot of difference in their life. This simple item that could be a basic item in your closet is now connecting fashionistas and T-shirt wearers all over the world to a special cause. 

For every purchase of this basic white tee you get connected to a girl in Africa who needs to stay in school but can't because they lack the resources. It could be school fees, sanitary towels, school uniform or simply a meal a day. When you buy from mdadaforgirls you will receive updates from the specific girl you have supported for a certain period of time. Could be a term if the item you're purchasing will keep them in school for a term. Basically, you get to see their world through their eyes. It's almost like adopting a girl, digitally at least :)!  That is the essence of the basic white tee by Mdada for Girls, a social enterprise working in Colorado, US and Nairobi, Kenya that is making the basic right to education just as basic as the white tee is in a girl's closet. I also love that the tees are eco-friendly. I have never come across a tee made from bamboo and organic cotton. How about that for fashion that makes you feel REALLY good inside and out? 

Thursday, May 22, 2014

I'm Pharell HAPPY today


After yesterday's rant about my inability to get a KRA pin form and my bad experience with a customer service official, i'm happy to report that something was actually done! Today morning my email was flooded with responses from various  KRA staff and probably the top bosses there apologizing for what happened. Hey I even got my pin certificate sent to me!

Sample these emails...

Thank you for your correspondence. Your issue has been noted and is being addressed. You will be given appropriate feedback as soon as possible. Please continue to communicate and help us serve you better. 
(this one is probably an automated response but hey, I felt better)


Hello Lila, 

My apologies on behalf of KRA for the way you have been handled while trying to access our services. Could you please call me we see how to address the matter. 


Regards, 


Maureen Njongo 
Chief Manager |Corporate & Public Affairs Division |Marketing & Communication Department |Kenya Revenue AuthorityP.O. Box 48240- 00100 Nairobi | Times Tower| 


I have been instucted by my boss to reset your password so you may be able to log in and access your PI profile on the KRA WEBSITE. I have done this already and herein i also do attach a copy of your PIN certificate just incase you have problems logging in.
 
Thankyou

(of course i wont write her name here just because she could be the rude customer care official  and I dont need to embarass her on the net)


Morning Lila please note that we have reset your password, you may check your e-mail and retry however i have also attached a copy of your PIN certificate for your reference. 

Kindly accept my apology on behalf of KRA for the poor customer service experienced yesterday. Any time you visit Times Tower again you may talk to me if you don't mind. Am at ground floor room 3. 

Thank you for highlighting this issue. 

Sila Miriam M. 
Online Services-Manager 

These responses had a string of conversations among them that showed they were trying to figure out what the problem was and trying to sort it out.

So today i'm Pharell happy :) and I am so glad public service in Kenya is actually not as bad as i thought. Our voices are indeed heard.



Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Tears for Mdada


O.M.G. this has been the toughest day so far in regards to Mdada. I'm currently in the process of registering the name Mdada and I can't believe what i'm going through. It's almost like some force is trying to stop me form doing this (i'm a superstitious girl at times). So this is my problem. To register the name Mdada which by the way i thought suitable because it is  slang for young girl in Tanzania. I liked the name and I believe it would make sense to Swahili speakers across Africa and especially here in Kenya where i'm launching this enterprise. 

To register  the name requires that i have a pin form from the Kenya Revenue Authority (KRA) which I believe is just a form that shows that I have a pin and therefore I ought to pay tax from whatever income I make. It should be a simple process to get one. One only needs to go on KRA's website, sign in with your pin number and email address to get access to your account and then print the form from there. 

I tried to do this from a cyber at Embassy house which is opposite Sheria house which is where people register companies. When the cyber attendant and I requested for one, it delayed to be sent so I decided to just go and follow it up at KRA office (in fact it was never sent to my email) itself which was about 10 min away. The queue there!!!! I couldn't believe i had to queue for such a small issue and plus i hated the fact that i wouldn't be able to get the pin form in time before the Sheria offices close a 3pm. I decided to do it the following day and I did. After queue for almost an hour,the official simply reset my password and sent me an email to go and try the process at home. I had been through this process on my own and I was hoping her intervention would somehow work. It didn't. I have written emails to KRA and got a response form another customer service official which was unhelpful. He just asked me to do the same thing i had done before.

I seriously don't understand why i'm having such a tough time with this. I have other more more important things to do like work on my designs for Mdada clothing/meet the girls I will be helping...Anyway, today i was met with a rude customer service official at KRA and this just pulled the last straw from me. I tried to explain to her what had happened and she still insisted on doing the same thing other officials had done which is resetting my password and sending it to my email which has not been working since the first time i tried which was Thursday last week! So i decided to blog, i think it helps me let out the frustration. Other than this of course i've sent a complaint to the Commissioner at KRA (from the email address provided on the site). I hope they do something about it. It's been a long day. This is just the beginning and i will need grace to get through all other upcoming hurdles. I'm a fighter, aluta continua.

Monday, April 21, 2014

To educate girls is to reduce poverty

I've always been passionate about reducing poverty though i didn't really know the one thing that could do it. Over the years i have learnt that there isn't one sure way to reduce poverty but there are several ways to do it and one of those that stands out to me is through education and through the empowerment of girls. Education because without it you would not be able to read this blog or do the simple day to day things that make you progress in life e.g. basic math to purchase goods/services or even run a small business.I'm supportive of girl empowerment because statistics show that women and girls form over 50% of the population all over the world . Studies have also shown that educated women  have more impact in the society through their families in terms of providing for their families and hence reducing poverty.  Besides what studies and research have to say, I have observed that more often women take more responsibility over taking care of their families.  My reasoning therefore tells me that when i support a girl/woman, I have supported majority of the population that ultimately has more impact in reducing poverty. Educating girls is therefore my way of reducing poverty in my community, my country, my continent and the entire world.

Through this blog i'm hoping to meet other men and women who feel the same way and would like to do it in a way that speaks to them and that is through FASHION. Like most girls, I like the pretty things, the fashionable things that make me feel good wearing them. I believe there is a legion of people out there who are just like me and if i'm not correct then I'll be happy to include everyone else out there who wears clothes based on the simple observation that I cant remember the last time I saw anyone walking around nude. If you fall in any of these two categories i.e. you like fashionable things OR you really don't care about fashion but would not walk out of your house nude then you are my people :) I'd like to make this simple gesture of wearing clothes for fashion or just to keep warm have a meaning. I want you to know that every time you wear whatever it is that you will be wearing from me, you will be helping reduce poverty by keeping a girl in school.

Very soon, i will introduce a line of clothing that is so basic and that most people can wear it and  make a difference while at it. How would it feel if everyday/every week/ every month you wore something that you knew that because of your purchase you had either provided e.g. sanitary towels for girls (poor girls miss 4-5 days of school monthly, 45 days in a year which is more than a whole month of learning in a year because of the lack of sanitary towels) books, school uniform, school fees, built schools. In every purchase you make, you will actually get to choose what thing specifically you want to buy or provide for the girls. Let me know what excites you about this and comment below.

Would you like to work with me in this quest to reduce poverty by empowering girls through fashion? Email me on mdadaproject@gmail.com I look forward to hearing from you :)